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'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3ELast week we talked about us as fathers e=
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sue each other because of our increased stress levels=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-s=
pacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EMost of this =91stress=92 is really more to do =
with our attitude or lack of adequate R & R=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: y=
es'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EDr John Tickell points out the laughter is still the best=
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lieve stress=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EOf course to=
 do either, you must take time off work in mind and body=2E Dr John Tickell =
advocates 3 X three day weekends a year just for you to do something for you=
rself i=2Ee=2E fishing, bushwalking, whatever=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun:=
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acerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3ELove needs time and time needs love=2E<SPAN styl=
e=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EYour love for your wife created your =
children and the continued expression of your love in a thousand different w=
ays will sustain and build your marital relationship=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-sp=
acerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIf you are a father, you are a leader, and if yo=
u are a leader, you must be proactive in sustaining family relationships=2E<=
SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe third type of rest Dr Jo=
hn Tickell advocates is family holidays=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=
=A0 </SPAN=3EYes, you are Dad, you have no excuse, and <B style=3D'mso-bidi-=
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n married=A0to Alison for=A028 years=2E He is the father of five children, f=
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dana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E<B=3E<U=3E</U=3E</B=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<=
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ang=3DEN-AU=3EFor those readers out there who are parents of young children,=
 you will certainly agree when I say that children seem so different today, =
so independent, so forward, so non-responsive=85you know the rest=2E Well, w=
e are all in the same boat=2E Aside from going stir crazy waiting for the te=
enage years to finish; perhaps we should just TRY and understand what they a=
re going through, and attempt to actually live WITH them=2E Possible=3F Yep=85=
Read on:</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Darttext style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm; TEXT-AL=
IGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3EI hope you got something out of last we=
ek=92s article, part 1 of a 2 part series on living with young people=2E Tod=
ay we complete the series, again utilising the excellent material of John & =
Judith Simpson, from their 1997 book titled =91Family Glue=92=2E</SPAN=3E</P=
=3E<P class=3Darttext style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPA=
N lang=3DEN-AU=3EChapter 4 of the Simpson=92s=92 book discusses some obvious=
 differences, and the many variables within the homes of young people, with =
some valuable tips mentioned below on how to cope with these dynamics, we pi=
ck up tip no: 7:</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Darttext style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm =
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ly: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana'=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-list: Ig=
nore'=3E7=2E<SPAN style=3D'FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman''=3E=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0 </=
SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3EIf a young person feels there =
are no meaningful areas in which to exercise responsibility, they will often=
 choose to be different in an area of behaviour which is very important to y=
ou, to make their point=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Darttext style=3D'MARGIN:=
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=A0=A0 </SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3EAs much as you can, p=
ursue an =91open door=92 policy at home=2E Go out of your way to get to know=
 your young persons friends=2E Spend time with them too=2E Make them welcome=
=2E A teenager is quietly proud of parents who are considered =91cool=92 by =
their friends=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Darttext style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm =
auto 36pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1=
; tab-stops: list 36=2E0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-bidi-font-fami=
ly: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana'=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-list: Ig=
nore'=3E9=2E<SPAN style=3D'FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman''=3E=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0 </=
SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3ERespect your young person=92s =
privacy=2E If you are going through a time of non-conversation, don=92t pani=
c=2E Be there as a friend and as a consultant=2E Offer ideas and advice but =
give them the freedom to respond in their own way=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3D=
arttext style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm auto 36pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; TEXT-ALIGN:=
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EN-AU style=3D'mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: Verda=
na'=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-list: Ignore'=3E10=2E<SPAN style=3D'FONT: 7pt 'Time=
s New Roman''=3E=A0 </SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3EIt is un=
helpful to use pious language and references to faith religion in an effort =
to control a young person=92s behaviour; they could be viewed as hypocrisy=2E=
</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Darttext style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm auto 36pt; TEXT-=
INDENT: -18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: lis=
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-fareast-font-family: Verdana'=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-list: Ignore'=3E11=2E<SP=
AN style=3D'FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman''=3E=A0 </SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E<S=
PAN lang=3DEN-AU=3ECompliment them in front of your friends=2E No matter how=
 difficult they may be, there will be plenty of characteristics to admire=2E=
 Encouragement and loving interest are powerful allies; make good use of the=
m=2E Look for ways to build self-esteem=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Darttext =
style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3EThere=
 is another area many of us parents focus on, and perhaps expect an unrealis=
tic level of wisdom in=85and it is that our children make the right decision=
s throughout their life=2E Maybe we are scared that they will err just the w=
ay their parents did as young ones=2E Think about decision-making and young =
people as you read the following:</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Darttext style=3D'=
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rmal'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3EA young man was appointed to the presidency of =
a bank at the tender age of thirty-two=2E The promotion was far beyond his w=
ildest dreams and very frightening to him, so he went to the venerable old c=
hairman of the board to ask for advice on how to become a good bank presiden=
t=2E =93What is the most important thing for me to do as a new president=3F=94=
 he asked the older man=2E =93Make right decisions,=94 was the gentleman=92s=
 terse answer=2E The young man thought about that for a moment and said, =93=
Thank you very much; that is very helpful=2E But can you be a bit more speci=
fic=3F How do I make right decisions=3F=94 The wise old man answered, =93Exp=
erience=2E=94 Exasperated, the young president said, =93But sir that is why =
I=92m here=2E I don=92t have the experience I need to make right decisions=2E=
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eply=2E<IMG hspace=3D3 src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/c=
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ople brings with it a myriad of emotions/problems/experiences=2E Easy=3F No!=
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SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3ETill next time, Paul<BR=3E</SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E=5F=5F=5F=5F=
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is wife are the Children=92s Ministry Coordinators for the Goodlife </SPAN=3E=
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rmal'=3EWhat Kids Wish Parents Knew About Parenting, </I=3Esay=92s it doesn=92=
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erdana'=3ESpend time with your teens=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0=
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s they choose will tell you a lot about what they=92re like when they=92re a=
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<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EYour example will help your=
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ay for their ability to stand alone, for their self image, and for their des=
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tyle=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3ESound advice from a man who knows=2E=
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=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;=
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MILY: Verdana'=3EFrom both experiences I soon learnt that people have an inn=
ate capacity to rise to the occasion when confronted with something new=2E<S=
PAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EI also learnt to value the su=
ggestions and advice of others=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </S=
PAN=3EAs time went on I also realised that sometimes it=92s wise to rely on =
your own judgement and discernment, since advisors don=92t always have a ful=
l understanding of one=92s circumstances=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=
=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EWith that in mind I thought I=92d throw in a few ideas for n=
on-custodial parents of very young children=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: y=
es'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIn doing so I am aware that these parents are nearly alwa=
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'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIt will probably be useful=2E<SPAN style=3D=
'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThese courses are often available through=
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erdana'=3ETry to create in your home an environment that gives your child a =
sense of belonging rather than merely visiting=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun=
: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThis can be done with a display of photographs, favour=
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IZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EMeasure your child=92s height on the wall=
, or an architrave, and record the date=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=
=A0 </SPAN=3EIf you rent, then write the information on stickers and place i=
n a =91growing up=92 scrap book with other memorabilia=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SP=
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tyle=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EDevelop a sense of family t=
hrough regular visits to close relatives=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E<LI class=
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IZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EDuring each visit try to set aside a quie=
t =91together time=92 (not in front of the TV)=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun=
: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EDon=92t fill every moment with activity=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=
=3E</SPAN=3E<LI class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: =
justify; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36=2E0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3D=
EN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EEstablish simple rou=
tines=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThis gives the chil=
d a sense of security and being cared for=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes=
'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIt can also be used to help establish good habits eg cleani=
ng teeth, watering plants, washing hands before meals=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPA=
N=3E<LI class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify;=
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yle=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EOn each contact visit, plan =
to do at least on special activity that involves some degree of interaction =
between you eg create an artwork by tracing the outline of your child=92s ha=
nds and feet=2E</SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E</LI=3E</UL=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D=
'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FON=
T-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SP=
AN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'MARGIN-RIGHT: 1=2E3pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN l=
ang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E=A0</SPAN=3E<S=
PAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-fo=
nt-size: 12=2E0pt'=3ERoland Foster is an non-custodial father, separated sin=
ce 1997, with 5 young children aged between=A07 and 15 years=2E=A0 Roland is=
 a passionate father and an active social reformer who believes Australia's =
current laws are contributing to the creation of our fatherless society=2E <=
o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<font size=3D2=
=3E<a href=3D'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</f=
ont=3E</blockquote=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D13 bgcolor=
=3D'#ffffff' nowrap=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fbla=
st/templates/fathers/template1/Generic/banner=2Ejpg' width=3D595=3E</td=3E</=
tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' background=3D'htt=
p://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template1/Generi=
c/fade=2Egif'=3E<blockquote=3E<p=3E<font size=3D3 face=3D'Verdana, Arial, He=
lvetica, sans-serif' color=3Dblack=3E<br=3E<a name=3D'anchor6'=3E</a=3E<b=3E=
Special Feature</b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E=
<div=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fima=
ges/fathers=5Fissue95-21st June, 2004=5Fcouple grip=2Ejpg' align=3Dleft=3E</=
div=3E <P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<B style=3D'mso-=
bidi-font-weight: normal'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana=
; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3EMarriage:Protecting the foundations=2E<=3Fxml:=
namespace prefix =3D o ns =3D 'urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office' /=3E=
<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</B=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0c=
m 0cm 0pt'=3E<B style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight: normal'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU =
style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E=
</SPAN=3E</B=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT=
-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY:=
 Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3EBy Ron Hellyer<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E=
</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify=
'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-a=
nsi-language: EN-AU'=3E<o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal=
 style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU sty=
le=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<o:=
p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm =
0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FON=
T-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3EIf you accept that marriage i=
s the foundation of society, you should also accept that this important elem=
ent of societal life needs protecting=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P cla=
ss=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN la=
ng=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-ansi-language=
: EN-AU'=3EIt is not difficult to acquire the statistical information confir=
ming that the foundations of marriage are under serious attack=2E One out of=
 two marriages are breaking up, not only in <=3Fxml:namespace prefix =3D st1=
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-region=3E, but around the world=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3D=
MsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3D=
EN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-=
AU'=3E<o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN:=
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10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3EThe day of marriage,=
 when vows are exchanged, is often seen as a symbolic occasion representing =
the start of a life together=2E It is not until some time after that <SPAN s=
tyle=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0</SPAN=3Ethe true meaning of this commitment=
 is realised=2E The commitment, for better or for worse contradicts societal=
 norms; if you don=92t like it get out, look after yourself=2E I am not focu=
ssing on abusive situations, but the issues of marriage that cause stress an=
d strain and remain unresolved=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMs=
oNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN=
-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU=
'=3EThe number one cause of marriage failure is communication, followed by f=
inancial difficulties=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal s=
tyle=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=
=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3EIt is=
 rare that a single event breaks a marriage, but that a series of little thi=
ngs have grown to cause a cancerous growth eating away at the relationship, =
setting up a situation where a final straw is broken at some time=2E So ofte=
n it is recognisable by the temperature between a couple -is it warm and inv=
iting or cold and frigid=3F<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNorma=
l style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU st=
yle=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3EGr=
adually, the relationship breaks down and we would generally know this is ha=
ppening=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN=
: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE:=
 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3EWell, the hard bit =
is in doing something about it=2E The test of commitment is a test that is r=
egularly presented=2E In today=92s world, the external influences and accept=
ance that breakdown is almost an inevitable event, project a position that p=
ersuades many to give up=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNorma=
l style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU st=
yle=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<o=
:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm=
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NT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3EMarriage is hard, but the re=
wards are greater than anything the world can offer=2E The joining of two pe=
ople is more than the sexual union =2EIt is the recognition that both partne=
rs want to make it work and will do whatever is necessary to keep the founda=
tions in tact=2E<IMG hspace=3D4 src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5F=
blast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Ffamily=2Ejpg' align=3Dright vspace=3D4 borde=
r=3D0=3E It is a sacrifice! A sacrifice for your partners=92 wellbeing, the =
children, the grandparents and the extended family=2E Sacrifice is a strong =
resistor for the =91ME=92 generation=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P clas=
s=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lan=
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 EN-AU'=3E<o:p=3E=A0</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MAR=
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ZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3EWould you give y=
our life for your wife or for your children=3F The answer should be =91yes=92=
=2E That=92s the limit of sacrifice, but the characteristic of a strong foun=
dation=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; T=
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m'=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-US'=3ERon Hellyer has been married=
 to Margaret for 25 years and is the<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 =
</SPAN=3Efather of five children (plus extras)=2E Ron is management consulta=
nt based in Broken Hill , Outback NSW=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E</SPAN=
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'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</block=
quote=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D13 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' =
nowrap=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/=
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green=3EBefore stress was a word, we only had problems=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-=
spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIf we had problems, we would work our way thro=
ugh them and get on with life=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SP=
AN=3ENowadays, if we have problems, it is called stress=2E We put in a claim=
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